After 15 years and 15 stages of DV registration, we were finally accepted in 2022. However, our visa was refused due to forced IRGC conscription. We had no explanation to give our children about why a country with such a just constitution would treat us so cruelly. Now, my 18-year-old daughter and 13-year-old son are grappling with a conflict for which we have no answer. I'm reaching out in search of resolution to this moral dilemma. Your assistance in resolving this conflict is greatly appreciated.